ISSUE DATE: March 2006
INSIDE THIS ISSUE:
Ø ARE YOU
PLAYING WITH A FULL DECK???
Ø CLEANING
OUT THE CLOSETS OF YOUR LIFE
Ø UPCOMING EVENTS
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ARE YOU PLAYING WITH A FULL
DECK???
My Dad got me hooked on it. We can sit up for hours playing on
his computer and cheering each other on until the magic words "YOU WON!" come
up on the screen! I swore I'd never have it on my computer, and then one day I
downloaded a demo copy and began to play. The game is Spider Solitaire and as I
played it I began to see the wisdom that can give us a great strategy for our
lives.
Now, the version I downloaded has only 10 deals, so you have
the opportunity to play the same hand of cards you're dealt many times over.
What you do with that opportunity is up to you, and here are some of the things
I've discovered that I'd like to share with you as a conscious creator.
Each time you can play the game exactly as you've done before,
almost moving into an unconscious trance, expecting the next card to be the
same one you've seen so many times before, or you can take on a playful
attitude and try different options to see how far you can go - to experiment
and learn how powerful you really are! You CAN have FUN!
You can play the game with a winning attitude, or you can
simply assume that you're going to lose, that the cards are stacked against
you.
When you see the hand you've been dealt, you may think you
already know what's behind each card, what the final outcome of the game will
be, and more importantly you may even make a decision in that moment to give up
and quit or you may quietly play along uncovering the same cards as you've done
so many times before, effectively opting-out and settling for what you believe
is your destiny.
So my questions are: Do you believe you're holding a winning
hand? Are you truly playing the cards you've been dealt in life? Are you
playing with a full deck?
Do you have the belief that you can and will succeed, or have
you already decided to give in to those inner voices, based on past experiences
and programming, that are telling you not to bother trying because the game is
already fixed (and it's not in your favor)?
Have you settled into a comfort zone in life or are you ready
to take a risk and try something new?
This reminds me of the saying I'm certain you've heard before:
"If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always
gotten."
Just like in the movie Groundhog Day with Bill Murray, you can
have the same experience day after day after day. If you're tired of waking up
every morning with the belief that you already know the story that's about to
unfold, then maybe it's time for a change. As you change your attitudes and
your actions you WILL change your results!
Josh Billings said, "Life consists not in holding good cards,
but in playing those you hold well."
Are you anticipating wonderful things to unfold each day that
will excite you and delight you, expecting only the very best in life? Or are
you expecting your days to be monotonous, dull, boring, and full of struggle?
Remember, what you expect is what you get. As you expect life
to be generous, kind, loving, and supportive you will not be disappointed.
We play the game. Yes, there may be opportunities we miss that
might make the journey easier, and yet in the long run we are certain to hit
our mark, to win our game, to reach our destination as long as we maintain our
focus, determination and commitment to succeed.
Only we can take ourselves out of the game. There are those
times when we are so frustrated we may just decide to give up and give in. And
in those moments, it's often difficult to remember that the journey we're on is
the greatest gift. What we learn along the way is absolutely priceless.
Rather than settling in, settling for less, or opting out, we
can make a decision each and every day to participate fully in the game of
life.
As a conscious creator you have a CHOICE! No one is doing it to
you and no one is going to do it for you.
And, by becoming an observer of our own life, we have the opportunity to stand
back with unemotional objectivity to see perfection. From a higher perspective,
unobstructed by the past and our ego separation, we are able to see a wide
range of undiscovered options and possibilities. We can create the space for
higher wisdom and intuition to work on our behalf.
The Universe is limitless and abundant. It is only our limited vision
and beliefs that hold us back from realizing the truth. The fulfillment of our
every desire has already been provided for.
Living consciously, choosing what you desire for your life, you have the chance
to live with passion and purpose, excited about the new day ahead!
If you're ready to make a change in your life, here are some strategies for
success:
| 1. |
Play the game of life
consciously and try different options to keep it interesting and exciting as
you open to new possibilities you may never have imagined are right there
waiting for you. |
| 2. |
Learn the lessons from past
choices and make different ones if you choose to have a different result.
Remember, if you continue to do what you've always done, you will continue to
get what you've always gotten. |
| 3. |
If you become frustrated or
tired, take a break. Simply put your focus on something else and then come back
to the project or task at hand with a fresh, new perspective. |
| 4. |
Instead of reacting
unconsciously out of old beliefs and habits, begin to respond to life in
the moment and seek new opportunities and options, new ways of being in the
world. |
| 5. |
Start each day new with the
bright eyes and mind of a child, free from worry, doubt, and fears, embracing
the adventure of every moment. |
| 6. |
Hold the clear vision of
yourself as a winner and create positive self-talk that will allow you to move
forward with ease and joy to the life you love to live full of unlimited
abundance, prosperity, health, love, joy, laughter, peace, and
happiness! |
YOU deserve it!
To your wealth and success,

Debbie Friedman, C.Ht.
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For
information on Debbie's Cleaning Out the Closet of Your Mind
CDs and books,
click
here.
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"Prosperity is a way of living and
thinking, and not just money or things. Poverty is a way of living and
thinking, and not just a lack of money or things."
- Eric Butterworth |
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CLEANING OUT THE CLOSETS OF YOUR LIFE
Monday March 20th was the Vernal Equinox - the first day of
Spring, a time of new beginnings in all areas of our lives. This is a time of
expansion, a dynamic time of awakening.
And, if you haven't already done it, this is a perfect time for
Spring cleaning, getting rid of all the things you no longer want or need in
your life. This IS the time to give yourself that gift!
When you clean out your physical environment, un-cluttering and
emptying out, your mind MUST cooperate. A clean environment demands an
uncluttered mind, and a clear mind demands an uncluttered environment. (My
CDs and practical
tools are here to support you with this, too!) They work in a perfect
balance in harmony to give you the freedom to receive all the new energies,
people, happenings, and things that are on the way to you now.
The Universe will not tolerate a void or a vacuum, so when you
take the time and make the effort to release all of the old things that no
longer serve or support you, you are creating space for the new.
As some of you know, I moved two weeks ago. Now, my home is
never cluttered and yet I felt the desire to get rid of a bunch of old stuff
that I'd been holding on to, stuff that no longer brought me pleasure and that
simply was taking up space. I got to feel the JOY that this release brings!
One whole donation truck later, along with antiques and
furniture to my sons, I felt lighter, more free, no longer carrying the burdens
of items that belonged to other people or that kept me tied to the past.
It's a cathartic experience and it's a powerful demonstration
of your willingness to change, to let go and to grow.
So, if you're ready to welcome in the new, give yourself this
gift of freedom and release.
YOU deserve it!
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"It is awareness of the awesome force of
belief that creates possibility. Possibility limited only by what you can
imagine. Positive belief anchored in respect, love, gratitude, integrity, and
self-acceptance provides you, the artist, with a new brush that makes bold
strokes. It is the time to create the life you've only dreamed of. But to do
this you must be ready. Ready to change what you believe!"
- - Ray Dodd in The Power Of
Belief |
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